
For decades your home was probably at the center of your life’s best moment. It is where the memories were made, the family gatherings happened, and the kids grew up. You have a real emotional attachment to the place, and we get that. It’s not just a house. It’s like another member of your family.
However, the truth is, for a lot of people over 60, the big family home that was once such a blessing can start to feel like a burden. The freedom and space that was so wonderful when the kids were young can start to feel like a financial and physical strain. The house that was once a source of pride can start to feel like a second job.
At The Ginther Group, we work with homeowners in the Triad who are making this exact transition. What we usually see is that the conversation doesn’t start with a desire to leave, but with a realization that the house is costing more than it’s bringing in. Between rising property taxes and the physical toll of keeping the place up, there’s often a lot more to maintenance than homeowners expect.
Hidden Financial Costs of Aging in Place

When you finally pay off the mortgage, you figure your housing costs will plummet. However, the reality is that the ‘silent’ costs of owning a big house just keep on going. If you are not careful, they often gobble up your retirement income that you could be spending on travel or enjoying your grandkids.
1. Rising Costs of Property Taxes
Even if you have a fixed income, your house’s assessed value isn’t fixed. The local property market can go up, up, up, but so do the taxes you have to pay on your home. That’s especially true if your house is worth way more than you need it to be. You might be paying taxes on a four-bedroom place when in reality you only need three rooms.
2. Energy-Sucking Costs of a Big House
Older homes are notoriously inefficient, and it shows in your utility bills. You’re probably heating and cooling hallways, spare bedrooms, and basements that sit empty for months on end. Add in a dodgy old HVAC system and you’re looking at bills that are way higher than they need to be.
3. Repair and Maintenance Surprises
When a house gets old, so do its major systems. A new roof, a dodgy water heater or a cracked foundation can come out of nowhere and cost you a small fortune. The trouble is, the older the house gets, the more likely it is to need repairs, but the list of things that need fixing keeps getting longer.
4. Insurance Premium Hikes
Homeowners insurance is getting more expensive all the time, and if you have an old house, it’s going up even faster. Insurers view older homes with aging plumbing as liabilities, and if you have a big house, the replacement cost is way higher, which means the premiums are way steeper.
5. Outdoor Maintenance Burden
A big lawn might have been great when the kids were young, but now it’s just a constant source of work between mowing, weeding, and raking. It’s not just the money that’s the problem; it’s also the physical toll on your back and knees.
| Key Takeaway: A big house can go from being a financial asset to a cash-flow liability in retirement.
Why Many 60+ Homeowners Are Selling Now Instead of Waiting

We’re seeing a lot of homeowners in Winston-Salem, and the surrounding areas, choosing to sell now, and it’s not just about getting rid of the costs. It’s also about taking advantage of a market that’s currently on their side.
Strong Equity Positions
If you’ve owned your home for a long time, you’re probably sitting on a pretty big pile of appreciation. Selling now lets you turn that ‘paper wealth’ into real cash, which can help you live more comfortably in retirement, boost your investments or help out the family.
Capitalizing on Buyer Demand
The market right now is still tight, but there are plenty of people out there looking for a decent home in a good neighborhood. If you sell now, you’re still going to get a good price, but if you wait until the market shifts or the house falls into disrepair, you might find yourself with a lot less power as a seller.
Selling Before Major Repairs Are Needed
The best time to sell is when your house is still in top condition. You want to get the most money out of it before it needs a new roof or the HVAC system dies. Selling a house that needs major work is a lot harder and you’ll often end up with cash buyers or investors who want to knock you down on the price.
Making the Move While You Are In Control
Perhaps the most compelling reason to move now is that you’re still in control. It’s way better to downsize by choice while you’re still healthy and energetic, rather than being forced to move due to some kind of medical emergency or mobility issue later. Selling now means you can design your next chapter on your own terms.
How to Maximize Your Equity When Downsizing

Once you decide to make a move, the goal suddenly shifts to keeping as much profit in your wallet as possible.
Strategic Pricing for Today’s Market
Overpricing is the quickest way to kill a sale. We provide a market analysis that gets to the ‘sweet spot’ price that draws in buyers without leaving a fortune on the table.
Smart, Minimal Pre-Sale Improvements
Renovating the kitchen just to sell is a pretty common impulse, but you’ll rarely get back dollar-for-dollar what you sunk into it. Instead, focus on the high- return-on-investment updates that will actually make a difference: fresh new paint, decluttering, hiring a pro to clean, and giving the place a nice curb appeal.
Preparing Emotionally & Financially
Before we list, we’ll help you calculate your ‘net sheet’ – exactly how much you’ll be walking away with, after all the closing costs. Having a clear idea of that number helps you plan where that equity is going, whether it’s into a new place, an investment, or setting up a plan for your legacy.
Understanding Tax Implications
The tax laws currently allow single filers to exclude up to $250,000 in capital gains – and married couples up to $500,000 – as long as that home was your primary residence for at least two of the past five years. (Always, always check with a tax professional about your specific situation).
How to Downsize Without the Stress: A Step-by-Step Guide
At The Ginther Group, we know that the logistics of moving after decades in the same place can be seriously paralyzing. Here’s the road map we use to make the whole process a little more manageable.
Step 1: Clarify Your Goals
Stop thinking about what you’re losing and start concentrating on what you’re gaining. Do you want a single level place? A low-maintenance HOA community? To be close to the grandkids? Figuring out the ‘why’ makes the ‘how’ an awful lot easier to figure out.
Step 2: Get a Home Value & Equity Review
Knowledge really is power. We’ll give you a clear picture of what your home is worth so you know exactly where you stand in terms of your buying power for the next phase.
Step 3: Create a Simplified Decluttering Plan
You can’t tackle a whole elephant at once. We recommend getting started early and tackling one closet or drawer at a time. Sort into ‘Keep,’ ‘Donate,’ ‘Sell,’ and ‘Toss’ – and if you need some help, we can introduce you to some estate sale pros or organizers.
Step 4: Secure Your Next Home
The fear of ‘selling but having nowhere to go’ is very real. We can make sure you have your next home lined up, focusing on low-maintenance properties that’ll let you age in place with minimal hassle.
Step 5: Coordinate a Smooth Transition
If you are worried about moving into a new place right away, we can negotiate flexible closing timelines or ‘rent-back’ agreements that let you stay in your current home for a little while after you close, and give you some much-needed breathing room.
Signs It’s Time to Have the Downsizing Conversation

If you’re still on the fence, take a look at these indicators:
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- You find yourself avoiding certain rooms or floors in the house.
- Yard work leaves you feeling like you’ve been put through a wringer.
- Maintenance costs are going up faster than your retirement income.
- You want to travel, but you dread leaving the house unattended.
- You feel like the house is owning you, rather than the other way around.
Hidden Costs of Owning Too Much House After 60
Moving out of a long-time family home is a major life transition, but it doesn’t have to be a sad time. Our clients who downsize almost all say the same thing a few months later: “I wish I’d done this sooner.”
They trade forking out for gutter cleaning for a round of golf. They trade heating up empty bedrooms for heating up a travel fund. They trade the stress of home maintenance for the freedom of having more time to do the things they enjoy.
If you’re wondering whether it’s time to simplify your life, let’s kick things off with a no-pressure equity review and downsizing strategy session. We are here to help you take control of your future. Contact us today to schedule your complimentary consultation with The Ginther Group and take the first step toward a more freeing lifestyle.

